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WHAT HAPPENS AT A TAMIL WEDDING - PROLONGED RITUALS


WHAT IS IT ALL ABOUT?

Tamil weddings are not less than a royal affair. They pay attention to all the small details in a wedding Ritual. The unique feature of the wedding is that they prefer to use red and saffron colors which are a symbol of richness, purity, and sensuality. The wedding and their ceremonies start a week ago. Typically Tamil Matrimony is based on the sacred Hindu texts, but it also has a modern touch. Generally, the priest of the families read bride and groom horoscope and fixed date and time of marriage. All wedding rituals are performed based on the Grah Nakshatra.

THE PRE-WEDDING JITTERS

Tamil wedding starts with fixing the venue of the D-Day by the bride’s family. Once the venue is fixed then the ladies of the families start their scared Tamil wedding rituals. Palikai Thalikkal ritual is performed where the 9 types of food grains are placed in the clay pot and watered by the 5 to 7 elder women on a regular basis. The grains are sprout in a few days; it is the symbol of the auspicious start of a new family. After the wedding day clay pot food grains are thrown into the small pond.

THE WEDDING EVE

On the wedding eve, a formal & small engagement is performed where the bride and groom exchange their wedding rings

The D-Day

Tamil wedding starts early morning. The Groom wear Dhoti and drape a scarf and take an umbrella in his hand and go for kasha yatra(go to the wedding venue) where the bride’s father request them to stop the yatra and perform a wedding with her daughter. Then the bride and her father and groom sit in the mandap where the priest chanted mantras where the bride’s father finally hands over the bride to groom. The groom family offers 9-yard traditional sari to the bride, then the bride changes their dress and comes back to the mandap.
The priest finally performs the wedding ceremonies where the bride and groom take the seven rounds after that the groom tie a knot of traditional thread around the neck of the bride which is known as mangalsutra. Guest and family members are present the gifts to the bridegroom and they are served by the lavish food.       

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